Upset

Nowadays getting upset, got feed up becomes usual. I am really wondering why its happening frequently to me, me?. Thats was the next question that had raised.

Does everyone feels in the similar manner?

Is it my fault to be a victim?

am I exaggerating normal events?

Will this continue for ever?

What if same continues after marriage?

Though so many similar question starts to pop up in my mind, I convinced myself that wave raised in the turbulent life.

Immediately, next thing I got is, How to have 'Go on' attitude in this turbulent flow.

Its always better to think in other perceptive as our own life as our intention, mindset will influence the thinking path of our mind, which results in regular reflection of what we don't like to have.

Practicing some tactical method to diminish such a instance by staying quite and feel relaxed. Once you started to practice this you will feel the difference. Remember on thing, which is the ultimate thing, 'had face so much, cant I face this'

Feel and face the turbulence.

Hows this Mookhai.

Re-Define!

I have the practice of redefining every thing that is hard to understand or that is not clear. Many colloquial words that have a dictionary definition need practical definition for me to understand it much clearly.

I had briefed myself my experience with the word and its practical explanation to the word hard work and suffer.

Now its best friend, when I was reading autobiography of Gandhi English version. Gandhi has given a right explanation to best friend, indeed. To my practical life exposure with respect to my own environmental exposure, I need a clear explanation to self. After all everyone’s perception attitude differs.

My friend Muthupandi often says, ask about one’s friend to know him, when someone asks about your friends circle their intention is nothing but in knowing you.

Mostly I felt this is right, a friend is an alt ego of self, but it not mandatory condition in all circumstances.

Words those I tried to redefine are Luck, Love, Satisfaction, Dedication, Life, etcetera.

Fortunately I had a different conclusion to my urge to understand words in practical scenario.

This sort of redefining will lead to confusion and frustration and redefining redefine itself. There is no standard definition for anything its all depends on the circumstance.

Every instinct, everything has it own meaning.

Suffer and Hard Work

Whenever I heard , ‘he suffered a lot to come to this position’ or like and ‘its all bcos of team leaders hard work’ and like ,I am completely confused due to lack of practical explanation of both Suffer and Hard work in relevance to Growth in Life.

First I didn’t know what suffer and hard work means? Second I don’t understand when people say something about suffer and Hard work. That is ‘what is actually called or can be called as suffer and hard work’. I realized a gap between what I understood and what people say and that gap nothing but my self-explanation of suffer and hard work.

At last I did it in order to feel how people suffer and worked hard. I and my friend discussed in order to give a suitable explanation to the quote (last words), which Steve Jobs ‘s said while giving away a lecture in Stanford. Here dream can be replaced by your desire or your need or your goal or your values.

I can say, ‘when you can’t achieve your dream and that dream is itching you even when you did something to attain it or not, it is Suffer’.

And Hard work, ‘when you did something so that your dream fulfilled even in unfavorable circumstance, it is Hard work’

I suffered in lack of practical explanation to ‘Suffer and Hard work’, now as a result of my hard work I explained it to myself very clearly that lacks with me, practically.

This is what Steve jobs said, don’t be a fool by not quenching your hunger, He said ‘Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish’
Hopefully I think I am Right, Am I?